HandlingRelationshipIssues

The greatest tragedy in life is not death but living in life without becoming useful to yourself, irrelevant to your family, unnoticed in your generation for good and unprofitable to God that created you. The following ways are means of becoming youthful but not useful. 1. Making yourself available to men Oftentimes I wonder the kind of life some ladies dreamt of living. You mess up your body with fornication while you're youth and you expect God to give you a prince charming? Who does that? It's one thing to be ignorant or to have lived ignorantly in the past but now that you know the truth, will you be useful to God while you have fragmented your life with every Dick and Harry? Do you think great women were leftovers of sexual immoralities? O baby, there’s more to life than premarital sex or with boyfriend relationships. You can't be great when you're old, you plan it now by using your youthful life profitably. Get a life! Repent...

There's a mystery behind wet dream, it is simple, but sometimes complicated. It's simple in the sense that a sexually inactive mature man may sometimes experience wet dreams which is biologically called nocturnal emission - a process whereby men experience an ejaculation of semen during the night.  Sperms has limited days in which they can last in the human body and new ones needs to be produced. Unused sperms within 21 days are reabsorbed in the body.  It is possible for females too to experience nocturnal orgasm or wet dreams - a sexual arousal during sleep that awakens them to perceive the experience of an orgasm. All of these, both male and female experiences of wet dreams are sometimes related to having sex in the dream.  So, if you haven't had sex for years, it's likely that you might have wet dreams. Don't be scared, it's a normal development that occurs in your body. But when it happens within days and weeks repeatedly, two things are ...

It is commonly said that love occurs at first sight and many people have laid much claim to this philosophy. Love that will stand the test of time must be time proven otherwise it will fickle away when it is faced with the realities of life.  Two relationships that love is mostly needed is in friendship and marriage. Good friends aren't made in a day, they're brewed with time which determines their credibility and genuineness.  Successful marriages also does not start in a day, aside many factors, time will test their love and the strength of their character.  Do you think love is a feeling? Do you think it's just an emotional excitement you have at the thought of whom you love? Feelings don't last and can never stand the test of time. You can feel good today and get moody tomorrow but a wise choice made about love which is adhered to come rain or shine is the true definition of love.  One thing you should never joke with in your understandin...

Dear singles or engaged singles, it is with pain in my heart that I write this to you because of recent happenings that most people found themselves in, especially in their relationship.  It is now a common thing that boy visit girl or whichever way and one thing led to another and they found themselves in bed.  I know you love him and both of you and in love, but please pay attention to this message.  To my single sisters, Christian or un-Christian, never go to the house of a male friend alone. I reiterate, don't visit your male friend alone. This is not a matter of lack of trust or 'He won't do anything to me'; prevention they say is better than cure.  It is very difficult to tame your hormones when you are both emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to each other. When there's a Chemistry between you two, a physics will occur and you'd both carry out the biological process. In fact, speaking in tongues won't help unl...