HandlingRelationshipIssues

The subject of true love came into play when the world sees what the expression and outcome of love has become. Love expressed in the world was seen to be selfish, wicked, evil and full of lies and deception; hence there was a heart cry for true love. In the name of love, many were jilted, heart broken, hymen broken, became victims of premarital sex, single mother, abortion, unwanted pregnancy, relationship disappointment and so on. Yet, the souls of men yearn for a love that would be sincere, selfless and a kind of love that would be expressed in deed and in truth without hurting them or that would destroy their lives. Philosophers in their understanding classified love into four types: Agape, Eros, Phileo and Storge. This is true for the human understanding but scripturally, it's wrong. God's kind of love is true, real, genuine and sincere; anything else other than this is lust, favoritism, conditional or infatuation.  What is love? What is not love? Who is l...

Yesterday, ladies who were naive or easy to be influenced had fallen into the deception of cunning men whose aim is to have premarital sex with them. Today, some of them don't learn from the mistake some made in the past and are still victims of premarital sex. Tomorrow, more ladies would be victims of premarital sex at their tender age because of the lies that was sold to them from the devil through subtle men. Truth doesn't make you fall, it keeps you standing provided you're firmly rooted in it but lies will make you fall and you may not be able to recover from the consequences of the fall.  The best way to escape lies is to know the truth and discard the lies immediately you discover that it doesn't correlate with the truth. A second thought on lies will convince you into the act just as it did to Eve. And mind you, lies can be sponsored by men or women and their sole intention is to deceive you if you're ignorant.  Do you know the popular...

Men are usually not victims of relationship issues but it's not impossible to find some men trapped in hell in their relationship. Will you say they're 'mumu' or what? My guy, I know you seriously need a good woman to marry but you must be careful of the lady you propose to before you carry sontin wey pass you in marriage. And if them don join you two together, na for better for worse. Divorce doesn't make you unmarried before God, you're only an adulterer. The only ground you can be divorced is on the grounds of adultery but forgiveness isn't impossible. Are you smart enough to discover these things in your relationship? Leave her quick quick! 1. If she can't manage money but buys everything that is irrelevant, my guy, leave her Women ought to be a good manager when it comes to handling money, but if the one you enter relationship with always buy what she doesn't need, you better look well before you leap so that i...

When it comes to doing the right thing in a relationship, oftentimes, many are so myopic to see the handwriting on the wall. But when the deed has been done, they'll lament, "Had I known". Dear ladies, are you in a relationship with your boo, baby booboo or whatever pet name you choose to call him but you're noticing some things? If you notice these kind of things listed below, I take the name of the LORD God Almighty in heaven beg you, leave him quickly. In fact, don't tell me you're confused or whatever, take action immediately before you enter 'One chance'. 1. If he can't save you but tries to 'sex' you most times, leave him. A man is meant to cultivate a woman and not culture her for sex. The only time and place where a man can demand sex from a lady is when he's legally married to her and in marriage. Any 'Away' match is sin. If you like call it what you like, sin is sin. 2. If he want...

Hardly in life would you ever find someone who hasn't gone through an heart break in the course of their lives. Some had it once while some suffered it twice. For some, it was a minor heart break, while to some, it shattered more than just their heart but their whole life.  With a microscopic view of this situation on why many experience heart break in their relationship, I have discovered three major things that are the causes, the cures and the preventive measures. Heart break is traumatic, emotionally draining and if care isn't taken, it may lead to suicide. If you're never its victim, please learn and if you've experienced it before, please read on to master some few tips to heal quickly or take precautions.  What are the causes of heart break? 1. Ignorance "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge" Why would you go into a relationship when in the next two years, marriage isn't going to be in your agenda? Or...

If only many youths had been told what they need to know about relationship, both online and offline without mincing words at the early stage of their life, they would have escaped the consequences of relationship issues. It is quite unfortunate that many pastors had failed to enlighten their youths and singles about the dangers of dating, but they learnt their lessons in a bitter way. Due to the worldliness of the church and the church feasting with the world, the church had consciously or unconsciously supported the term 'Christian Dating'. Is there anything like Christian dating? That the prefix 'Christian' is added to a worldly thing doesn't mean God approved it. Let's go back to the old-time religion! Dating means different strokes for different folks. But trust me, the average person believes dating is that relationship where you decide to know whether you'll marry the person or not and it involves premarital sex ...