HandlingRelationshipIssues

When it comes to doing the right thing in a relationship, oftentimes, many are so myopic to see the handwriting on the wall. But when the deed has been done, they'll lament, "Had I known". Dear ladies, are you in a relationship with your boo, baby booboo or whatever pet name you choose to call him but you're noticing some things? If you notice these kind of things listed below, I take the name of the LORD God Almighty in heaven beg you, leave him quickly. In fact, don't tell me you're confused or whatever, take action immediately before you enter 'One chance'. 1. If he can't save you but tries to 'sex' you most times, leave him. A man is meant to cultivate a woman and not culture her for sex. The only time and place where a man can demand sex from a lady is when he's legally married to her and in marriage. Any 'Away' match is sin. If you like call it what you like, sin is sin. 2. If he want...

Hardly in life would you ever find someone who hasn't gone through an heart break in the course of their lives. Some had it once while some suffered it twice. For some, it was a minor heart break, while to some, it shattered more than just their heart but their whole life.  With a microscopic view of this situation on why many experience heart break in their relationship, I have discovered three major things that are the causes, the cures and the preventive measures. Heart break is traumatic, emotionally draining and if care isn't taken, it may lead to suicide. If you're never its victim, please learn and if you've experienced it before, please read on to master some few tips to heal quickly or take precautions.  What are the causes of heart break? 1. Ignorance "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge" Why would you go into a relationship when in the next two years, marriage isn't going to be in your agenda? Or...

If only many youths had been told what they need to know about relationship, both online and offline without mincing words at the early stage of their life, they would have escaped the consequences of relationship issues. It is quite unfortunate that many pastors had failed to enlighten their youths and singles about the dangers of dating, but they learnt their lessons in a bitter way. Due to the worldliness of the church and the church feasting with the world, the church had consciously or unconsciously supported the term 'Christian Dating'. Is there anything like Christian dating? That the prefix 'Christian' is added to a worldly thing doesn't mean God approved it. Let's go back to the old-time religion! Dating means different strokes for different folks. But trust me, the average person believes dating is that relationship where you decide to know whether you'll marry the person or not and it involves premarital sex ...

If everyone you see or know are somehow eligible for you to marry, then you can choose to marry anyone you want whether you like or love them. But not so in many cases. When it comes to choosing who to marry, there are lots of confusion in the hearts of many as to knowing whom they ought to marry. Several lies has been popularly promoted such as 'Marry your best friend', 'Marry in the Lord', 'Marry someone you can't live without' and so on. But are these ideologies truly right? I have met people who married their best friend but overnight, they turned out to be their worst enemy. See, marriage has a way of either changing you for the best or making you worse. Many married in the Lord (church) but later found out that they are married to a devil in the attire of an angel. If marrying in the Lord was right, then all Christian marriages shouldn't end in divorce. But not so my dear! The only person you can marry as a man is the person th...

Nobody gets wounded and won't have a scarred tissue on his or her skin. To have a flawless skin, it's best you avoid injuries on your skin. There's nothing as good as being sexually healthy or to enjoy a life free from problems oftentimes caused by sexual immoralities. Trust me, some tragedies are better avoided than for you to nurse their pains or scars. Do you know that your life doesn't remain the same after every illicit sexual affair? Married couples have no issues with this because they're united in marriage. But when you keep jumping from one person to another for sex, you're establishing oneness with them. Something is introduced after every illicit sexual affair. 1. They introduce a part of them into your life Man can house several spirits. Whosoever you have sex with leaves a part of them in your life. The Holy Bible says whosoever joins himself together with a harlot is one with her. However, when you join yourself with persons ...

Whether you believe this or not, God is still in the business of making wives and husbands for His own children. That Adam blamed Him doesn't mean He's backed out from giving His faithful children the best things in life. Many false teachers have deceived lots of people into believing that God doesn't make help meet or guide you on whom to marry. Na lie! They'll even tell you that you must find who you like and have God to endorse him or her. That's deception at its peak! Do you want God to give you a good husband or wife? Or you want to find your own specs - tall, dark, rich and handsome; beautiful, endowed, fair and so on? Let me address Christians here. It is only those who are doing something for God that He can make a help meet for them. If you want God to give you a good wife or husband, what are you doing for Him? Ever since you gave your life to Christ and you have been attending church well well, wetin you dey do for God? You're the...

The primary aim of gaining admission to tertiary institutions is firstly to learn and acquire a degree so that you can have a strong foundation for your career life. Everything else is secondary. But above that, it's not a bad thing to serve God there and put Him first. Relationship on campus especially among Christians is now not different from that which is practiced in the world. Heart break, premarital sex, abortion, unwanted pregnancy, deception, lies, immoralities and the likes are finding expression among those who are named with Christ when they're supposed to depart from iniquity. Fellowshipping with brethren on campus ought to build and edify the youths in the body of Christ but however, it is quite painful that a place where believers are expected to gather has now become a place where wolves in sheep's clothing are secretly ruining the lives of innocent sheep and unsuspecting lambs, ladies especially. Why am I writing this? Recently, I wrote...

This is a question that most people ask themselves especially mature singles and teenagers. Some are qualified to ask while some aren't fit to ask. Being qualified to ask is a function of your maturity and being responsible and one other factor I'll bring to your understanding.  I am not here to tell you about the age range or whatever you have been used to because age doesn't determine marital success when you're not mature or responsible. You can be thirty years old and still portray immaturity or an act of irresponsibility, more so, I don't mean you go into marriage as an underage when certain things hasn't been defined about your life. See, having two breasts, or a penis or a well physically built body doesn't mean you're fit for marriage. Marriage is more than physical maturity. It has more to do with your mental, spiritual, financial and emotional maturity.  Being responsible is the ability to make certain decisions an...