HandlingRelationshipIssues

There's a large number of sisters who are ready to be married than brothers who are also looking for who to marry. It's an indisputable fact. More sisters are waiting to be married but few 'okay' or 'incompetent' brothers are showing up. Why is this so?  There are more sisters who are godly, wifely and they have good character you can come by but chai, our brothers, are not helping matters. An average Christian brother is far from a husband material. In fact, they don't have or know what it takes to be a man, not to talk of becoming a husband.  If there are suitable brothers who are fit to marry our beautiful, spiritual and waiting-on-the-Lord sisters, the numbers of ladies going for marriage prayer meetings will be reduced to the barest minimum.  Is it because women are more than men? I don't think so. As a brother, who want sister to respect and honour you but you're emotionally immature and childish. Don't you kn...

It was unfortunate that my relationship with Kemi (not real name) turned out this way. Anyways, it's men's world like they used to say. When I was a player, there were different ways to get ladies in bed which I use. It was different strokes for different folks. Believe me, boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is a hoax - it's a matter of who wins or lose. If she benefits more from you as a guy and she ended up with another guy, you lose. If you spend less and hit your aim, you win - and then move on. I'm writing this for ladies to learn. After I had given my life to Christ, it pained me to see ladies cry. How I wished I can tell every ladies out there that what they need isn't a relationship with a boyfriend but to face God and get a life. Kemi was indeed a good girl. She was beautiful and endowed. I'm sure you know men are attracted to good things especially when they have no problem seeing the sacred parts of a woman. You push up your ...

Two words remain powerful in life, yet misunderstood. They're pleasure and purpose. Myles Munroe said when the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. And when a life of purpose is not lived, pleasure becomes the order of life. The pursuit of pleasure has become a major distraction in the lives of many youths who have been destined for greatness. It is sad that the subject of knowing and fulfilling God's purpose in life isn't taught at the home front even in the church. What many of us are familiar with is the pursuit of pleasure. Pleasure is an activity that gives you enjoyment, that very thing you love to do. Some like sleeping, to some it is browsing, playing games and so on.  There are several kinds of pleasure; there is the sensual, sexual and the pursuit of vanities. Sensual pleasures are done to gratify the physical senses, they include looking at a man or woman to lust (pornography), erotic conversation (the use of di...

Three years time. Five. Or it's not in your agenda? Then you need to read this. In a bid to know about relationships or for reasons best known to many young people out there, they venture into relationships with the hope of getting married someday when they're probably not sure of its possibility. But unfortunately, they met what they never bargained for. Going into a relationship is not a crime. Trust me, you need the company of those who would wake the giant in you, those who would challenge you into success and not those who would destroy you.  But of what benefit is it when you're not planning for marriage say in the next two years? Do you know that when the purpose of your relationship is not known, abuse is inevitable? One of you will do one thing that would lead to the advantage of the other but to the detriment of the other party.  Now that you're in a relationship, how soon are you getting married? Honestly answer the question oth...

Life is like a coin. It has a head and a tail. Where it faces after you toss it is what you get. Hence, it determines the outcome of your life. The two sides of a coin that life gives is either purpose or pleasure. What you do on daily basis, who you move with and what you spend your time doing determines the outcome of your life. No one becomes great in life by wishing, they tossed their lives on the side of purpose and those who choose the path of pleasure also have their lives to life. There are two kinds of life: those who make things happen and those who watch things happening. The kind of life you're living today will determine the outcome of your life. Do you just think life is all about going into boyfriends and girlfriends relationship? Partying, drinking, womanizing, hanging out with the boys or babes? Becoming slay kings or queen with large followership on social media? It's just a matter of time. Now judge yourself: what do you expect to become...