HandlingRelationshipIssues

In every organization, there's a system of operation where communication and managerial operation flows from the senior member of the organization to the junior members. In marriage likewise, God has designed it in such a way that there's a hierarchical system that connects the head to the neck and other part of the body. God is the head of Christ and the head of man is Christ while the head of the woman is the man. It is so common today to hear lots of men claim headship over the woman, especially when they're married to her. It's so sad that lots of men who claim to be the head do not know what it is to be the head while some are empty headed. A man being the head talks about responsibility, are you responsible enough to lead her, become a husband she can look up to or serve as a priest for her? It is the failure on the part of some men that makes their wives to be vulnerable to extramarital affair, false prophets and the likes. What makes you the head...

If only I had known how bitter the effect would be down my throat, I wouldn't have been tempted to taste how sweet it was - Anonymous For every action, there's a cause and effect. Many don't think through the consequences of their action before they carry out the act; it is after they have committed the act before they regret it afterwards. Do you remember those times you wished you hadn't done what you did, only to blame yourself or regret it? The ability to do what you want in life is limited if there was no Creator. Because you were created, there are certain acts that are forbidden in life and your relationship. There are lots of 'forbidden fruit' many had eaten and are still eating in their relationship. For every forbidden fruit you eat, be prepared to feel the pain down your throat. Most people are still nursing the consequence of the forbidden fruit they ate years ago. Ask Adam and Eve, if they had known that been separated from God, becoming a vaga...

Quite a lot of people are putting the cart before the horse while they think that's the most important thing they should do in life. Many are busy chasing pleasure when a whole lot is at stake concerning their lives. Unfortunately, the society we live in has made relationship, marriage and sexual intimacy to be the most sought-after things you must pursue in life. Even many relationship counselors on social media made it an important aspect of their messages. Don't get me wrong, it's necessary but it's not that important as we place much emphasis on it. How can you learn so much about sex, marriage and how to attract the right partner when the most important aspect of your life - your relationship with God is nonexistent? Whether you agree with me or not, it's the greatest distraction in life. Avoid it. There are two categories of people in life who will be distracted. They are; 1. Teenagers who are pursuing... Love relationship. I felt I came...

It has been the chorus of many guys that ladies love money and some guys believe that when you demand for money, the only way for them to be compensated is to have sex with you. Many ladies even cry that men want sex every time they give them money. Why is this so? A general philosophy about relationships is in give and take. You rub my back, I scratch your back in return. From Monday to Wednesday, he'll spend on you and on weekends, he'll expect you to spend it with him. Unfortunately, this incidence has made lots of ladies to be a Sex Bank. He'll invest some amount of money into you and later he'd expect to recoup his return through sexual intimacy. This issue of men demanding for sex when they give you money, especially those who aren't godly is worthy of consideration. That a man goes to church doesn't mean he's godly, if he keeps giving you money, know for sure that someday, he'll expect his investment in you to yield returns. ...

There has been cases of women who want sex before marriage, and you would ask, "What's the craze about sex or what's in it?" I want you to understand that what sex is to a woman is not what it is to a man. A woman wants sex for intimacy; some, for you to prove to them that you're a man and so on but men wants sex to ease their sexual urge. Only a lady who is a certified ignoramus would desire sex from a man and if she has an assignment to carry out. Do you know why some ladies wants sexual intimacy? Read patiently so that you can save yourself from the consequence. 1. When she's feeling horny Biologically, when a woman is ovulating, she feels the desire to have sex because sex triggering hormones are released in her during this period. No lady is daft to give you her body unless she's under the influence of something. Most ladies that gives you 'free' sex may be controlled by their raging sexual hormone or an addiction. ...