It was unfortunate that my relationship with Kemi (not real name) turned out this way. Anyways, it's men's world like they used to say. When I was a player, there were different ways to get ladies in bed which I use. It was different strokes for different folks. Believe me, boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is a hoax - it's a matter of who wins or lose. If she benefits more from you as a guy and she ended up with another guy, you lose. If you spend less and hit your aim, you win - and then move on.
I'm writing this for ladies to learn. After I had given my life to Christ, it pained me to see ladies cry. How I wished I can tell every ladies out there that what they need isn't a relationship with a boyfriend but to face God and get a life.
Kemi was indeed a good girl. She was beautiful and endowed. I'm sure you know men are attracted to good things especially when they have no problem seeing the sacred parts of a woman. You push up your chest region and you leave it uncovered, oh my o my, they're tempted to touch. You wore those skimpy gowns and skirts, you blow up their imagination. Why won't they run after you when you have given them a lustful scene?
I became friends with her not too long because we met at a function. She proved hard to get but as a sharp guy, I went through her friends. Eventually, after the persuasion and conviction, she said yes to me. Immediately, I re-strategized on how to implement my plans. May you not say a yes that would destroy your life! See, you can't know the heart of a man unless you know the mind of God concerning the man. It's wise you cherish your relationship with God above your boyfriend's.
I cared for her so much. I lavished her with calls - morning calls were strategically done so that I can be the first person she'd think of. Late night calls were done to confuse her sense of judgment. A good player knows the rule and plays it well. But only few ladies knows the laws of life. There are quite a number of them. Put first things first in your life. Get closer to God. Face your academics or destiny squarely.
I never lacked behind with gifts. More of them were lavished on her on special days - her birthday, Valentine's day and the day we met.
Less than three months after we met, I initiated the first kiss. It was messy but fun. To her, that was her first, but to me, I have had enough. Thank God there was no communicable diseases through the mouth. After kissing had become a norm, sensual pleasure demanded for more. There's no how you'd tolerate kissing for too long that it won't move from the upper region to the lower region. Your best bet is to flee every appearance of evil.
We moved on to erotic conversations. You know what that mean? We talked raw, dirty and sex chat. Who won't enjoy obeying the law of sin? Only spiritually minded people would hate sin.
Shortly after, I tried indecent touches. Allowing my arm to hit her upper region wasn't a mistake, it was deliberately done during our outings. I did that to send a signal. Most times, I demanded for a hug and I hugged her tightly. The first touch could be a mistake but subsequent ones are deliberate.
After all these mapping and gaming, she did more of the calling and I did less. I ensured that I was into her. Once a man has his way into your heart, he'll control everything else in your life. Ladies be careful!
I Invited her to my friend's house to finalize my plans. Dad would kill me if he sees me with a lady. I'm a good boy at home but when I'm out with my friends, I'm entirely different. Parents must pay attention to the friends their children keep.
Not all players take their 'game' to their own house. It's usually a friend's house that's tush or available. Don't be cheap or carried away by flatteries. Real men don't tell you what they have, you'll discover it if you're truly theirs.
On the set day, she came. Her smile was innocent. She smelled nice. She wore a flowing short red gown and I ushered her in like a queen to seat on the throne (sofa) - joined her later after I had served her a drink. Players knows how to treat their catch romantically. We watched a romantic movie. In due process, chemistry was activated. We motioned our lips, then our hands and before she'd realize it, the guard was broken and I went in like a hunter roasting his game.
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I hope ladies would learn from this.
Permit me to highlight the key areas he emphasized.
1. Beware of boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. What you need is a relationship with God.
2. Get a life. Build your career or focus on your vocation. Misplaced priorities makes you ignore your life to pursue vanities with a boyfriend relationship.
3. Dress decently
4. Beware of peer influence. Don't allow them influence you to do what's wrong. Say NO and mean it!
5. Be rooted in God so that you can know the heart of men when they come. It's possible!
6. Shun frequent communication, they're pathway to intimacy. Avoid filthy communications (erotic), they corrupt manners.
7. Be careful of gifts, they blindfolds too. Only the giver knows the aim for giving.
8. Beware of indecent touches. Your body belongs to God and your husband - not boyfriends.
9. Guard your heart with all diligence lest the wrong man enters to destroy you.
10. Be careful of lonely visits. Even if he's the 'main' man, prevent stories that touches the heart.
I hope you have learned one or two things.
© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2017
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