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The Tragedy of An Illicit Sex Affair (3)

Nobody gets wounded and won't have a scarred tissue on his or her skin. To have a flawless skin, it's best you avoid injuries on your skin.

There's nothing as good as being sexually healthy or to enjoy a life free from problems oftentimes caused by sexual immoralities. Trust me, some tragedies are better avoided than for you to nurse their pains or scars.

Do you know that your life doesn't remain the same after every illicit sexual affair? Married couples have no issues with this because they're united in marriage. But when you keep jumping from one person to another for sex, you're establishing oneness with them.

Something is introduced after every illicit sexual affair.

1. They introduce a part of them into your life

Man can house several spirits. Whosoever you have sex with leaves a part of them in your life. The Holy Bible says whosoever joins himself together with a harlot is one with her. However, when you join yourself with persons A, B and C; a fragment of them is in you. Here's the mystery, you can be single but married (joined) spiritually to more than one person.

Now imagine what happens when you join yourself with those who are demonic, diabolical or are candidates of evil curses. They leave a fragment of what they house in you. And you'd begin to carry it all about.

Isn't it consequential to add extra luggage to your burdens in life? Isn't it burdensome to multiply your battles in life when you haven't overcome the ones around you?

Stay away from illicit sexual affair before or outside marriage.

2. The experience either makes you hate sex or become its addict

When you hate sex as a lady, you'll give your husband more task in marriage to convincingly make love with you because of the bad experience you expose yourself to. However, the memory it would leave might take ages to erase.

And if it was a mind blowing experience, you'll become so glued to it that you'd become a slave to sex. When it's not readily available, you'll seek for ungodly means of satisfying your sexual urge - masturbation or pornography.

Why introduce something terrible into your soul when you can enjoy the life of sexual purity that God has given to you?

3. You either contact sexually transmitted diseases or non-sexual related issues

Medically, it has been proven that the best way to sexual hygiene is to abstain from sex until marriage. No amount of protection you use can prevent it. Some sexual viruses are so microscopic in nature that they can escape or sip through the condom or semen.

If you try to be medically protected, can contraceptives prevent your glories or virtues from being taken away? Spirits don't have sex but God's covenant and blessings over your life can be taken away when you tolerate illicit sex.

I'm sure you know that life is not just physical but spiritual. Don't ruin your life on the bed of sexual immoralities. Your prayers won't be much when you have your glories intact but if you allow five minutes pleasure to evaporate it, you'll have more prayers and deliverance to make.

Furthermore, do you know that you can't be a victim of abortion, unwanted pregnancy or premarital sex when you choose to abstain from sexual relationship or immoralities that could lead to it? Don't ignorantly introduce the things that would destroy your destiny into your life or that would alter your progress.

The media or scientists won't tell you about the tragedies involved in illicit sexual affair because they do not create it but are only making biological and carnal research about it.

Embrace the truth and understanding that comes from God so that you won't expose your life to the bitter tragedies of illicit sexual activities.

You can read part 1 here: https://web.facebook.com/adeniyi.tim/posts/10212972416807424
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And part 2 here:
https://web.facebook.com/adeniyi.tim/posts/10214506073787890
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© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2017

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