Why She Wants Sex

There has been cases of women who want sex before marriage, and you would ask, "What's the craze about sex or what's in it?" I want you to understand that what sex is to a woman is not what it is to a man.

A woman wants sex for intimacy; some, for you to prove to them that you're a man and so on but men wants sex to ease their sexual urge. Only a lady who is a certified ignoramus would desire sex from a man and if she has an assignment to carry out.

Do you know why some ladies wants sexual intimacy? Read patiently so that you can save yourself from the consequence.

1. When she's feeling horny

Biologically, when a woman is ovulating, she feels the desire to have sex because sex triggering hormones are released in her during this period.

No lady is daft to give you her body unless she's under the influence of something. Most ladies that gives you 'free' sex may be controlled by their raging sexual hormone or an addiction.

However, no free sex is free, it comes with a cost. Do you know the spirit that she houses? Do you know the covenant and curses she's entered into, knowingly or unconsciously? I'm not scaring you with this truth. The media won't tell you this because they'll say, 'Stop being spiritual'. Because they're carnal, they'll tell you that sex has got nothing to do with spiritual implications.

Just hold on, before you unzip your trousers before that lady that wants sex; think of the damage it will do to your spirit and soul, consider its effect on your destiny and the aftermath on your unborn generation. For by the means of a whorish woman, a man is reduced to a piece of bread. May your destiny not be reduced to crumbs!

No one fulfills destiny or becomes something in life by fragmenting his or her life on the bed of premarital sex. And if she wants sex because she's 'horny', why not groom her to see the need why life is more than sex?

2. When she has a mission

Do you know why Potiphar's wife wants Joseph to lay with her? If it was just because he was well built and handsome, that's one thing, but do you know the effect of what it would have had on his destiny? The same story of his eldest brother, Reuben, would have become his fate.

Not all mistress are ordinary, many of them have a mission. The enemy doesn't just come around you because he likes you, he'll come to steal something, kill and destroy your life completely.

Ladies who gives you free sex and you're glad you've proved your manliness could be an agent sent to destroy you. No sex is free!

Aside being an agent, sex destroys lives and destinies.

Dear married men, that young lady outside is not helping you but destroying your marriage and your life. What legacy are you leaving for your children or you think they won't know? There's nothing done in the secret that would not be revealed, it's better it was never done.

3. When she wants to prove a point

The sex perverted world has made some ladies to believe that the expression of 'love' is through sex and this has destroyed the lives of many ladies. Ignorant ladies would give you sex just to prove to you that they lust after you. Love is not sex and sex isn't love.

That a lady gives it to you only meant that she's in lust. You don't prove love, you express it with its fruits and not with your body. Love is a person and not a formula. You only prove what doesn't exit.

And if you too prove to her that you love her with sex, you've just set yourself up for destruction. Condoms can't prevent it!

4. When she's a complete ignoramus

Do you know that fools make a mock of sin? How can a sane lady have the mentality that she's good in bed and would prove it to you before or outside marriage and you'd be happy to jump at that destiny destroying offer?

It is lack of understanding on a lady's part that would make her offer herself to you for premarital or extramarital sex. If you jump at it, you'll destroy your life.

5. When she's emotionally weak

It's easy to get into the heart of a woman that's emotionally weak but it's foolishness to take advantage of her weaknesses.

Dear manipulative men, promising a woman marriage or a relationship when you know that your motives are not right doesn't show that you're smart, it shows that you're an ignoramus and whatever you sow, you'll reap.

God created men to protect women, whether she's related to you by blood or not. A real man protects, grooms and cultivate women to be better and won't culture them for sex.

Do you know that most tragedies that befalls some men is as a result of the deceptive game they played with the woman that opened up her soul and body to them, which they took an advantage of?

Any man that breach his promise to a woman will suffer the consequence of his action. If you think you'll escape the law of Karma, nemesis would catch up with you. And this is indisputable, anything a man sows, he shall reap it.

Now that you know why she wants sex, do you still want to go ahead to give her? Don't mortgage your destiny on the bed of premarital sex. Don't reduce your life to a piece of bread. That a woman wants sex doesn't mean you should give it to her. Help her stay pure. And if you can't, run for your dear life!

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