You don't need to be taught how to express lust because it's in your human nature but you need to learn how to love because it's God's nature.
If you express love to someone who expressed lust to you, if you're not careful, you'll fall into the pit of lust. When you discover lustful signals in your relationship, flee!
Many people exposed themselves to the ugly side of lust before they discover that love is beautiful. Take your time to learn rather than be destroyed through lust.
Lust occurs at first sight but love that would stand the test of time will take time to grow.
Lust is the mother of sin when it is conceived and when it is finished, it leads to death. Moreover, the product of love is life, peace and happiness.
Love is not in word or in tongue but in deed. Meanwhile, lust is in word, it'll tell you what he will do if you fulfill its carnal desires.
Lust is highly sensual, in words, it is erotic; in thoughts, it is lustful and in deed, it encourages immoralities. Anyone that compliments a particular part of your body in a sexual way only lust after that part of your body. For instance, if "I love your smile" becomes you have a sexy or kissable lips, please run!
Love is contagious, likewise lust. Be careful of the one you contact.
I haven't found anyone who loved the right person and at the right time and ended in a mess but I have seen many who loved the wrong person and ended up destroying their lives.
Lust can thrive between partners in a godly relationship if they toe the line of the flesh but not so with love. The affection of lust is directed to an object in your spouse but love is unconditional.
When boundaries aren't set in a relationship, you'll easily crossover to the path of lust but a relationship where boundaries are maintained is safer and saner.
The goal of lust is sexual immoralities, premarital or extramarital sex but love gives and improve lives.
On Sex isn't the right expression of love for singles but commitment and improving the life of whom you're in love with. Take note of this, sex doesn't equate love neither love equals sex.
Lust birth premarital and extramarital affairs but love produce abstinence and faithfulness.
There's the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eye. Lust of the eye makes people covetous while lust of the flesh makes many greedy in possessing what they don't need.
There are several types of love: eros, phileo and storge kind of love but the best is Agape love.
Erotic love and lust are similar, they tend to gratify the desires of the flesh and their primary aim is sexual intimacy.
Phileo love is a type of love that exist between family members or those who met by chance. Love doesn't occur at first sight because it takes time for love to grow.
Love is like a small spark of fire that takes time to grow but lust is like a forest fire that burns suddenly and dies immediately.
Love is God's nature. If you don't fear God you can't manifest God's kind of love, however, love without the fear of God is susceptible to infidelity and other issues associated with the wrong expression of love.
You can give without loving but you can't love without giving. Love doesn't give what would destroy it. However, lust is selfish, it only gives what would satisfies its carnal desires.
You can look to admire and also look lustfully. Lust emanates from the heart, likewise love. Watch what flows from your heart for out of the heart are the issues of life.
The product of lust are the likes of premarital sex, extramarital affairs, kissing, petting, caressing each other's body, sexual infidelity and so on. However, love is seen through commitment, sacrifice and in deed.
Dear singles, love alone doesn't make marriage work, you need discipline, the fear of God, commitment, patience, perseverance and an assurance that you're with the right person. Don't enter into a relationship on the basis of lust, the end product of it is destruction.
(C) Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2017
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