Love is a sleeping giant that has the capacity of pulling down every stronghold whenever it's awakened. He is so generous that he gives his all when he enters into your life. He makes the wicked to see their state of wickedness when he's expressed to them, in fact he patiently loves those who are termed unloved.
But when you wake love at the wrong time, destruction would set it. It was highlighted three times in the Book of the Songs of Solomon never to stir up love until it's time because doing a wrong thing at the right time makes it wrong.
Are you thinking of going into a love relationship? Don't wake up love until when:
1. You understand it
Your understanding about love isn't about what you read in Mills and Boons, what you watch in Telemundo or in soap operas. The best understanding about love can only be found in God's word because God Himself is love.
Which kind of understanding do you hold about love? Love is not a feeling, feelings are temporal. Love is not a butterfly sensation in your life, love is a personality of God. Your understanding about love goes a long way to determine the kind of experience you'll have in your relationship.
Love isn't displayed through kissing, kissing is an expression of love for the married. Love isn't sex, sex is solely designed for the married. If you think all these are what love is, you're practicing lust and lust when it's conceived, it brings forth sin and sin when it's finished, it leads to death (destruction).
Use your period of being single to gather enough understanding about love. When you don't understand love, you won't be able to clearly discern when lust is expressed to you.
2. You are not ready
How can a girl or boy of fifteen or nineteen be ready for a love relationship when lots of things has been left undiscovered in their lives?
It is ignorance to go into a love relationship when you don't know God's purpose for your life. It is a tragedy to enter a love relationship when you're not financially, spiritually, emotionally and mentally ready.
It's not when you go into a relationship that you get prepared for love. You must prepare yourself before going into it just as a student prepares well before writing an exam. Most failed relationships is caused by a lack of understanding of what love is really all about.
You can be thirty and wouldn't know what love is all about. Get knowledge and understanding so that you'd be able to manifest wisdom in your relationship life.
3. You don't know the right person
What a futile investment is it to awake love when you don't know who's the right person to express it to! Expressing love to the wrong person will make you experience hell in life.
You need to prayerfully discover the right person before you open up your heart to love otherwise you'll suffer many heart break in the hands of the wrong people.
It takes the right person and at the right time to understand the depth of warmth, oneness, peace and happiness that is associated with love. I can't quantify what it is to be in love with the right right person and it's mutually expressed. No wonder the love between David and Jonathan was greater than the love that existed between a man and a woman.
My dear, take time your time to prepare for love before you stir it up. If love can make God to give His only begotten son and that same love made Jesus to lay up His life on the Cross; find the right person at the right time and under the right environment (marriage) to express love.
Awaking love at the wrong time will expose you to heart break, premarital sex, abortion, unprepared motherhood, sexual immoralities and the likes. There's time to build and plan your life before you discover love. When you express love to the wrong person, you'll suffer terrible issues, when you lack the understanding of love, you'll mess up your love life and when you expose yourself to love at the wrong time, you'll face the consequence that comes with it.
© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2017
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